There is too a dang spoon, if there wasn`t there wouldn`t be anything to talk about. It exists whether it physically exists in the natural realm, or whether it is mearly a shared idea. Also, in the video game, it`s very annoying to try and stop bullets while you`re in the middle of combat. Not to mention when you throw the bullets back, they do about as much damage as a mosquito.
In conclusion, The Matrix can go to hell and STFU. And so can you.